After talking about my main difficulties in Holland, I also decided to talk about my main learnings, which certainly far outweigh the difficulties.
An exchange is a very intense phase, and this also extends to the learnings that we take when we returned home. Of course I learn a lot about agriculture here, especially the organic and biodynamic; but there are certain things that I learned that really no book would teach me.
Below I will list my key learnings out of agronomy.
1 - Some people you only see once in a lifetime so do not miss the chance to know them.
2 - When you know that your time will end you actually live with more intensity, which we do not realize before an exchange is that life will also end and we do not know when, so alive with intensity always.
3 - The more languages you know, the more people can communicate; and believe me, when more you communicate the more you grow and learn.
4 - For the difficulty in verbal communication, I began to create more empathy, often can not understand what a person speaks, but I can recognize that it is in need or feeling.
5 - Try new foods and do new things. It's like I'm no more a chance to do it again, I just experiment.
6 - The impossible is just a matter of opinion even I did and do things here that even I thought were impossible for me. Today I know that a lot of doing things are not impossible, they just need a special dedication.
7 - Listen. As I am in a country that does not speak my first language when someone is talking to me you need me to put some attention and even take a break in what I'm doing.
8 - I'm not as essential as thought. It's not easy to hear, but it is reality, no one needs you to go on living; the problems you solve, someone will solve.
9 - Tell people how much you love and how to care for them. Now I know that any moment could be the last time I see and talk to someone.
10 - You can not drop everything and go running to her parents' home when things do not go the way you would like, you simply need to face.
11 - It is important to accept others' opinions, and people as they are. You can not just come in and impose things the way you want.
12 - You do not need to be in extraordinary places or occupy important social positions to lead a really interesting life, it just depends on you and how you lead your life.
13 - His life is based on the priority you give to things and people, and it is these priorities that might make your life more interesting or more monotonous.
14 - What people think of you is really their problem. The important thing is to be good about yourself.
I will end this post with a quote from Montaigne, it helps to describe the experience of living in another country:
"We seek another reality we do not know how to enjoy our own, and we left within us the desire to know how our inner"